The atrocities of men and women around the world and the extent of which they commit such never fail to disgust and distress me.  Who has to believe in an afterlife of eternal torment and punishment when, here on earth, humans already bring it upon their fellowmen?  And the saddest thing is that in most of these crimes, the women receives the greater punishment.

One of those horrific crimes of violence against women is the practice of “honor” killing.

Honor killing is the revengeful murder of a female member of the family, carried out by any or all of the family member themselves, when it’s been perceived that she has brought dishonor upon the family name.  Refusing an arranged marriage, falling in love with another man that is not approved upon by the family for marriage, seeking divorce, even from an abusive husband, commiting (or being under suspicion) of adultery, or even failing to meet strict standards of moral behavior expected of a woman can be reasons to be killed.  A woman who’s a victim of rape will fear her family and her other relatives more than her rapist (or rapists) because it is perceived that she was the one who brought shame to the family name, regardless of her sufferings.

I’ve recently viewed a documentary made by Michael Davie on a case of honor killing in Pakistan.  It was initially aired on February 13, 2002 as part of National Geographic’s World Diary.  He followed closely a part of the life of Zahida Perveen, a survivor of honor killing by her husband, and how she underwent extensive reconstructive surgery, so as to augment her recovery.  She was 29 years old at the time the crime was committed and was six months pregnant.

The story of Zahida Perveen began like any other woman who had been a victim of honor killing.  She is a dutiful wife and did her best to please her husband and his family, as is expected of an Islamic woman.  But male members of the family (in her case, her husband) still find her wanting and thought of her as having “bad character”.  One day, after coming home from the mosque, her husband accused her of infidelity and tied her up, beating her, breaking her ribs and cutting out her eyes, nose, and ears, and the extreme brutality made her lose unconsciousness.  Thinking that she was already dead, he left her.  Neighbors found her inside their home and she and her children were brought back to her family.  Since then, it was her brother who took care of her and her little children.

This was how Zahida Perveen looked like before the crime (Photo from Erudition Online)

This is the outcome of what her husband did in the process of defending “his honor” (Photo from Erudition Online)

Zahida with her prosthetic nose and ears and artificial eyes (Photo from Erudition Online)


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*This is something I found written in my scribble notebook, which I usually bring with me wherever I go so I could jot down my thoughts as I have them.  I could use a Pensieve, if only it’s existent and available.

From Political Science Made Easy:

One disadvantage of democracy -

The processes in a democratic system of government are for the most part slow and time-consuming, resulting in unnecessary delay in addressing problems and other areas of concern affecting the lives of the people.  It necessitates too much paper requirements in government transactions.

Does this mean the more paperworks we’re stuck doing in transacting with the government, the more it shows how democratic we are?

This reminds me of my recent experience at PRC.  I needed some certified true copies of credentials and I properly filled up the forms THEY gave me when I said what I needed and followed their unnecessarily long procedure (which I honestly think could be shortened into two steps only).  And when I got to the end of the procedure, I was made to realize (rather rudely) that I’ve been filling up only one of the two forms I needed.  They wasted my time because even they, themselves, are confused with THEIR OWN PROCEDURE they’re trying to impose on people and blame them if they haven’t got it right.

I think I should blog more about this.

I don’t mind the paperwork, as long as the process is efficient.  And PRC definitely need to review its procedures and make sure its employees understand it.  And they definitely should be given a seminar on how to courteously attend to the needs of PRC’s clients.  Because really, it’s embarrassing hearing people say, “Ganyan talaga, gobyerno eh.”  It is as if people have come to accept that, in government offices, it is expected that employees would be lacking in manners and good customer relations.

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Even if there are still many people who’d blankly stare at the mention of the word “blog”, it is undeniable that the blogging phenomenon has pervaded the consciousness of the average people, most especially through traditional media. Newspapers like Manila Bulletin and online information websites like Blog Addicts of You have featured bloggers and their works. And certainly, some journalists have also become bloggers. It seemed that traditional media have accepted and acknowledged the value of blogging in this Information Age.

Or maybe not. Maybe traditional media is in it for a love-and-hate relationship with blogging.

In several news episodes, mostly touching on the Brian Gorrell phenomenon, reporters often cautioned about readily believing information that can be found on blogs, as some people may be utilizing it to destroy another person’s dignity, leaving the viewers with the impression that bloggers should be equated with whiners and blackmailers. Malu Fernandez even insinuated that bloggers were just slackers with nothing better to do but to gossip about other people and perpetrate hate. Korina Sanchez made an episode in her show, “Korina Today”, entitled, “Beware of Blogs”. A guest made a distinction between “legitimate” and “illegitimate” bloggers (which made me wonder where the heck she got that concept regarding a blogger’s legitimacy to blog). The show also touched on the topic regarding Brian Gorrell’s blog.

It’s one thing for one medium to be distrustful of another. But it’s a totally different thing for one medium to be distrustful of another, and YET, turn to that distrusted medium for INFORMATION.

In October 2005, a photoblogger, Anton Sheker, made a post about his visit to Vigan and, of course, being a photoblogger, incorporated several photos he took during his trip.

In March 21, 2007, Anton was surprised to see a couple of his photos in an article by Max Ballesteros in the Travel and Tourism section of Manila Bulletin (see Anton’s post about it with the photos and a photo of the MB article). He was never informed and he never permitted anyone to use the photos in any article. He had called the attention of Manila Bulletin regarding the plagiarism but, unfortunately, was ignored. He sent a bill for the use of his photos but no compensation has been given. Instead, the photoblogger was threatened to be slapped with a criminal case if he continued his claim.

What darn arrogance!

Last June 5, 2008, with the help of his lawyer, Attorney Rod Vera, Anton finally sued the 108-year old major daily for using his photos without his permission. It was said that it may be be a landmark case in the Philippines with regards to Intellectual Property Law and it may be the first time that those EXIF data photos do carry that have been used to properly document each photo will be used as evidence in a court of law.

And I’ve to say this isn’t the first time that someone from traditional media stole material from a blogger. Friends and followers of Eric Dee’s Byahilo would remember how ABS-CBN had used some of his travel photos in the show Boy & Kris without his express permission to do so (Eric has removed his original post already as the problem has been resolved).

And, of course, there could be other bloggers who were victims of plagiarism committed by those in traditional media, who supposedly advocates “fairness” in their reportage. Perhaps I may not know about it all because either I’m not a follower of those blogs or the issues had been resolved quickly. But still the fact remains that some people from traditional media had develop the habit of taking information from bloggers and using it as if it’s their own.

Haven’t these people learned in their college english subjects that it’s proper to quote your sources? That it’s a number one crime in writing any paper, be it technical or journalistic, to be copying materials in its entirety and using it as if it’s your own, even without proper acknowledgement?

Are these the kind of journalists that Professors Teodoro and Hofilena are urging to blog so as to set examples for bloggers?

I still just couldn’t forget this line from Professor Teodoro:

Many of those who post information online are irresponsible.”

With all due respect, Professor, I believe the same thing could be said about some journalists. Not only about what information they post online, but also on what they write in our newspapers, in what they report on TV and on radio. Traditional media may accuse bloggers of bringing further chaos in our “democratic dialogue”. But, honestly, come to think of it, it is the traditional media of late that brings more chaos, with their penchant for sensationalism, irresponsible reporting, and unnecessary bungling. Some journalists would benefit in a review of their basic journalism subjects.

All of these however, may have been avoided if only everybody would learn to remember how to respect copyrights. It’s a laughable notion that, still, some people think that whatever can be found on the internet is free. Even if the photo isn’t watermarked or labeled with “copyright”, the ownership never changes. At the point of creation, the created is owned by its creator. It is common sense, really. And somehow, I believe everybody really knows that, except that some would choose to ignore such a logical derivation in favor of selfish endeavors and the idea that nobody would DARE try stop them from doing so.

It’s good that Anton Sheker is pursuing his claim. But some bloggers aren’t going to be so fortunate, as not everybody can afford legal counsel. And maybe this is the very thought that strengthens the resolve of these media practitioners who steal information from other people.

These are but some observations that can make one think, “is traditional media losing its ethics?”

Well, I hope not. Seeing it as one of the most respectable professions ever created, it would be an injustice and a disgrace to its pioneers, if Journalism’s stature will become low as that of an ordinary thief because some of its practitioners just got too arrogant or too lazy to properly write or follow-up a story.