This is one of my favorite photos of Chin-Chin Gutierrez online.  Being a model, actress on stage, TV, and in the movies, she’s got tons more but I find this one that very much represents how I see her.  I believe she’s one of those Filipinas that we could all aspire to.

Of course, at first, I only saw her as a beautiful woman, an actress, and a model.  She’s started her career when she played Maria Clara in the 1991 Noli me Tangere.  And ever since, she had played different roles, not all being beautiful or glamorous, but this gave her character and credibility as a professional actress.  

And yet, I think, in this world, she is a real Muse, having such a passion for the arts.  Not only an actress, but she’s a painter (first collection was unveiled in May 2006 in Baguio) and a singer.  At an age when she could have just lived like any common rich celebrity, attending extravagant parties and making sure to be seen with the big names in the society, she has chosen to devote her time promoting advocacies dear to her heart, such as PETA and the environment.  Nowadays, she has become one of the most sought-after resource speakers for Environment education, Women’s rights, and ecology and spirituality.  She’s also earned the distinction of being one of Asia’s Heroes in 2003, as recognized by Time Magazine.  

And what perhaps made me admire this strong, artistic woman more is the manner by which has risen from a recent catastrophe that befell her family.  It was in early 2007 that she lost her ancestral home and eventually her mother to a fire caused by faulty wiring.  In an extreme effort to save her ailing mother and other household members, she suffered second-degree burns and other physical injuries.  She, herself, is still sick from the burn wounds and yet, all she could think of is her mother who’s in the ICU, and would direct her management even through phone because she still cannot move much because of the wounds.  And even if the fire has consumed everything she’s got and had led to the loss of her mother, she suffered the pain but went on surviving.  She visited other fire survivors and comforted them in her own way, despite having lost everything herself.

For me, that is the strength that I wanted to have.

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There are a lot of Filipinas who are as inspirational and strong as Chin-Chin, I’m sure.  They are ordinary people like a housewife, a neighbor, a teacher, or even a colleague who have made extraordinary contributions for the betterment of the society.  And what better thing to do than to share their stories of success and achievements so that they may inspire others too.

Modess’ campaign “Aim High, Pinay!” is started to celebrate women from all walks of life and how each Filipina has the potential to realize dreams and new goals everyday.  You can read stories that were shared by other Filipinas by going to their website: http://www.aimhighpinay.ph/.  Everyone is encouraged to share their stories of inspirational women or small personal victories by submitting their stories and photos in the site (but one has to register with the site first).   Modess will pick several winners of GCs and even a spa package.  The contest runs from September 8 to October 6, 2008.  Check the site for more details about the competition.

I actually got it yesterday but was only able to post today (too many things to do, so little time!)

I’ve yet to finish the book (and I should because my dad I’ve already piqued his interest and wants to take a peek) but basically it covers topics on getting started with blogging, discussing structure, definition, platforms, blogging ethics, content development, promotion, and opportunities.

For more details, check out Blogging From Home site.

Dad’s already nagging me about giving him the book so he could read and have an idea what this “blogging” really means.  I guess I’ve yet to make a blogger out of him.  Hehe.

Again, thanks, Ms. Janette!

The atrocities of men and women around the world and the extent of which they commit such never fail to disgust and distress me.  Who has to believe in an afterlife of eternal torment and punishment when, here on earth, humans already bring it upon their fellowmen?  And the saddest thing is that in most of these crimes, the women receives the greater punishment.

One of those horrific crimes of violence against women is the practice of “honor” killing.

Honor killing is the revengeful murder of a female member of the family, carried out by any or all of the family member themselves, when it’s been perceived that she has brought dishonor upon the family name.  Refusing an arranged marriage, falling in love with another man that is not approved upon by the family for marriage, seeking divorce, even from an abusive husband, commiting (or being under suspicion) of adultery, or even failing to meet strict standards of moral behavior expected of a woman can be reasons to be killed.  A woman who’s a victim of rape will fear her family and her other relatives more than her rapist (or rapists) because it is perceived that she was the one who brought shame to the family name, regardless of her sufferings.

I’ve recently viewed a documentary made by Michael Davie on a case of honor killing in Pakistan.  It was initially aired on February 13, 2002 as part of National Geographic’s World Diary.  He followed closely a part of the life of Zahida Perveen, a survivor of honor killing by her husband, and how she underwent extensive reconstructive surgery, so as to augment her recovery.  She was 29 years old at the time the crime was committed and was six months pregnant.

The story of Zahida Perveen began like any other woman who had been a victim of honor killing.  She is a dutiful wife and did her best to please her husband and his family, as is expected of an Islamic woman.  But male members of the family (in her case, her husband) still find her wanting and thought of her as having “bad character”.  One day, after coming home from the mosque, her husband accused her of infidelity and tied her up, beating her, breaking her ribs and cutting out her eyes, nose, and ears, and the extreme brutality made her lose unconsciousness.  Thinking that she was already dead, he left her.  Neighbors found her inside their home and she and her children were brought back to her family.  Since then, it was her brother who took care of her and her little children.

This was how Zahida Perveen looked like before the crime (Photo from Erudition Online)

This is the outcome of what her husband did in the process of defending “his honor” (Photo from Erudition Online)

Zahida with her prosthetic nose and ears and artificial eyes (Photo from Erudition Online)


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