Here’s one reason why I fear religion so much:

“‘I did not evolve from Turkana Boy or anything like it,’ says Bishop Boniface Adoyo, head of Kenya’s 35 evangelical denominations, which he claims have 10 million followers. ‘These sorts of silly views are killing our faith.’

He’s calling on his flock to boycott the exhibition and has demanded the museum relegate the fossil collection to a back room ? along with some kind of notice saying evolution is not a fact but merely one of a number of theories.”

Hearing a bishop saying or doing something like the one cited in the Yahoo! news article makes me shudder. I just realize now why there are wars fought, not just because of politics, but because of religion: we just won’t tolerate another person’s beliefs.


Sam Harris succinctly put it in his book, The End of Faith: Religion, Terror, and the Future of Reason:

“All are perverse agreement on one point of fundamental importance, however: ‘respect’ for other faith, or for the views of unbelievers, is not an attitude that God endorses. While all faiths have been touched, here and there, by the spirit of ecumenicalism, the central tenet of every religious tradition is that all others are mere repositories of error or, at best, dangerously incomplete. Intolerance is thus instrinsic to every creed.”

I remember a sermon I heard when, one of those rare times, I attended a mass conducted inside a shopping mall. I was almost awed with the priest saying the mass because, at first, he came across me as someone who’s progressive, fresh, not old school. There was a different vibrance with his way of saying Mass. But then, he went on about how the world is divided into Christians and the “Pagans” and that it is our duty, as Christians, to convert these “Pagans” to Christianity so that we could save their souls from going to Hell. I just can’t believe what I heard. Did I just hear that the world was improperly put into a dichotomy of “Christians” and “Pagans”? What about the other religions? Should we categorize them under “Pagans”? So has it become the “Christians” against the “Pagans”? What happened to religious tolerance? Has he just equated “Christians” with the Good and the “Pagans” with the Evil?

How I wished then that the mass was inside a more confined church. So that he could have seen me walked out of the place.

Maybe Sam Harris was right. There wouldn’t really be religious tolerance because intolerance is intrinsic to every organized or institutionalized system of beliefs. Instead of uniting everybody in search for the Truth, religions have divided us, prevented our eyes and our minds from possibly seeing the Truth that we seek by pulling over our eyes some righteous fallacies pretending to be true, which cannot be debated upon because, in the beginning, they are fallacies. Illogical. How can anyone rationalize with that?

I can almost hear every religion saying, “you must come with us because we know the Truth! We have it! And they don’t! We are the Chosen not them!”

I have become afraid of Religion. It has failed to be a conveyor for spiritual enlightenment. It has become a tool for division and organization. A tool for power.

I began missing some Sunday masses. The parish priest in our area is even worse than the shopping mall priest. He just keeps on reading his homily every Sunday. He goes about the entire ritual of the mass mechanically. Thus, he finishes the mass in 30 minutes. Even less. Worst is the other parish priest. He condemns women for not obeying their husbands, saying that it was written in the Bible that woman is just created from a man’s body part and so women should always be dominated by men.

So I stopped going to mass.

And then, I would hear my parents complain that I haven’t been attending Sunday masses anymore. That I am not being “good” anymore. And though they may not say it, I believe they are starting to think that their daughter has become “pagan”. As if not attending Sunday masses make someone “unspiritual”.

We are a country composed mostly of Catholics. Day in, day out, religion pervades our lives. Perhaps we got so drenched with religion that we have become “overreligious”, setting aside rationalism as being “evil” or “not God’s way”. I believe God gave us our rational minds for our own enrichment and for our eternal search for happiness and fulfillment.

But most people are stubborn. They refuse to take in the truth, even if it’s staring right in their faces, only looking at “faith” as the only thing that rightfully exists. And these are the dangerous people because they will only believe what they want to believe and no amount of reasoning can convince them otherwise because they believe they have the “truth”. These are the people that have wreaked havoc in our lives with wars, claiming that it is “God’s will”.

While this kind of “faith” exists, there will never be peace on Earth. Isn’t that a dreadful thought?

Share and Enjoy:
  • del.icio.us
  • Technorati
  • Digg
  • StumbleUpon
  • YahooMyWeb
12 Responses to “Dreading Religion”
  1. Ann Says:

    The Bible cannot be understood literally, some are myths, parables, and some, I believe are culture specific and some do not fit into our time anymore, like patriarchy and slavery.

    And I never understood why some people think science and religion are mutually exclusive. My teacher taught us that science answers the “whats and hows” and the Bible (or religion) answers the “whys”.

    We are damned in each other’s religion. I could always look at it that way, but maybe there’s just more than one way to reach heaven. But even if there was only one, we wouldn’t increase our chances of getting there by persecuting others.

  2. Tess Says:

    There is more than one way to reach “heaven”, perhaps as many as the people populating this planet. But most people cannot understand it. That’s the source of our suffering.

  3. tony Says:

    I probably would not leave catholic church or my faith just because my parish priest doesn’t know how to deliver a good homily….if i find the mass in my parish is so boring, i would like to find other parishes or priests.I have to be responsible to my faith..not others….so i wont just leave the church since others don’t do any good to my faith.
    it’s a mistake if i perceive religion like the one Marx has told us. If you really understand what religion is all about and experience a spiritual enrichment in your religion…you will understand that most of the people out there just manipulate religion to their own purpose. Don’t be fooled by these people.

    Don’t be afraid of religion…be afraid of people that might fool you using their religion and beliefs…..

  4. tony Says:

    it’s an irony that some people are afraid and hate religion or do not believe in religion or God anymore while they still talk and believe about “heaven” which is a “product” and idea from religions.

  5. Tess Says:

    To Tony:

    Thank you for coming by my site.

    If you read my article closely, it says there that I’ve been afraid of religion because it has been a tool of organization and division. A tool for power. That’s what I’ve been afraid of. Not religion per se.

    You don’t know the place where I’ve been. People here consider themselves as very “Catholic”. And yet they do the things that are very un-catholic.

    As for the stuff about mass, I haven’t found a church who would give out the homilies the way it should be. It’s plain crap in all the churches where I’ve been.

    I am still religious in my own way. But I’m at the crossroads. For now, I do have to attend the Sunday masses, because of the prodding of my parents. I just do it to satisfy them and not to provoke anymore fights and drawn-out sermons about being “good”. But my heart isn’t there.

    As for “heaven”, you noticed that I put it in quotation marks. That should have told you that I’m not talking about a Catholic or religious heaven. I was talking about a spiritual enlightenment, which most of the religions today have neglected.

    And, Tony, I do appreciate your comments. How I wish you’d include your email in your details so that I could better correspond with you. But then I’ve an experience with commenters like you who wouldn’t want to leave that kind of details. They don’t care to have feedback. They just want to put their opinions on something. Well, I’ve given you that, hopefully.

  6. tony Says:

    Tess,

    i cant understand why you cant see my email address there….i put my email add every time i make comment in blogs/websites….do i have to put my email address here in this box? just let me know if thats what you want…..i did put my email address in mail column….then I’m not a commenter who wouldn’t leave some details about myself….

  7. tony Says:

    tess,

    if i make comments here, it’s because i just want to share my experience and idea as well.It’s not that after making comments here i will just leave and dont care anymore.I had been into the same situation like the one you have now, and i have been listening to people in the same situation.
    It’s too bad that you experience “not so good masses and homilies”.I can understand your situation, and that is why i make some comments here. I am very open if you really want to discuss about this…..just want to let you know that i dont any intention to offend you thru my comments.

    it’s not true that religion are neglecting spiritual enrichment or enlightenment.There are many groups here in MM, or young people/young catholics who enjoy their spiritual journeys in different ways/groups.

    thanks so much…

  8. Tess Says:

    Points well taken, Tony. Thanks for leaving comments in my article.

    There must be something in the program that doesn’t allow display of the e-add. I’ll have to check that later.

    Hopefully I’d be able to find my own spiritual enlightenment. As for other people, I just hope they wouldn’t force their religion on others. A lot of hypocrite “religious” are doing that.

  9. tony Says:

    Good luck Tess,
    spiritual journey is not easy….at least that is in my experience….since hypocrites are everywhere: in religions, politics, offices, even families and marriages, i chose not to focus on those hypocrites since they could mislead my way…..religion is a way….and i think the responsibility is still in our hand, not in others. We could not blame religion because if you really experience religion you will find its roots in spirituality….just don’t let yourself fooled by those people who manipulate religions to their own need and purpose.I had been thinking that religions were bad….but it is because i didn’t even know and understand the real inspiration in it…..maybe at that time i just stop and get stuck “outside” and tell myself that religion is bad because people are bad.honestly..that’s unfair since we see many bad guys everywhere…not only in religion…..

    last thing, the bishop you mentioned in your article is not a catholic bishop….there are many christians denominations in africa and the rest of the world….these are different from “bishop” as we know in catholic church.

    just in case you cant find my email there: whodareswins1808@yahoo.com (so that you know i did put it there)

    thanks….

  10. benj Says:

    “spiritual journeys” are but escapist forays into an otherwise uneventful end. Religion was created by man’s inability to accept the fact that there is no afterlife. If it leads one to a good life with minimal disdain for the beliefs of others, then that’s a great thing. Most of the time though, religions serves as an ammunition for other people to judge individuals of conflicting ideas.

    I do agree with Tony though on the point that it’s a bit inconsistent to go back to christian/islamic concepts to define the ends of goodwill.

  11. Tess Termulo Says:

    Perhaps what first that should be defined is the difference between spirituality and religion.

  12. Thursday Thirteen #12 at Prudence and Madness Says:

    [...] Dreading Religion - Observing the events that happen around the world, it’s frightening to think that the world uses religion to destroy itself. [...]

Leave a Reply